Posted by xanDer on April 29th, 2010 

Okay guys, here it is: the best-kept secrets about Japanese women that you need to know. I’m sharing these as a public service; these are secrets that I’ve uncovered from years of dating, counseling other guys about their dating skills, and from conversations with female friends.

Secret 1: Sometimes, the hunter becomes the hunted.

Men aren’t the only ones who “hunt.” Some women aren’t content to wait for a guy to call; they want to be actively involved in “the hunt” for romance. Some women make it their life’s work to hunt down the perfect man for them. For many of these women, the thrill is in the hunt, and once they get the guy, the challenge is over, so they lose interest. If you are interested in dating a “huntress,” you need to know how to keep her challenged and interested by you. (Keep reading, I’m going to tell you how to do just that.)

Secret 2: No wimps, no whiners.

Don’t be a wimp. Japanese women hate wimpy men. That doesn’t mean you should act mean, rude, or inconsiderate – just the opposite; not being a wimp doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t be a gentleman. Just don’t sit there and whine about your past girlfriend, your job, or anything else. Whining is for little boys, not for men. Trust me, women want real men, not little boys. Little boys belong at home with their mothers, not on a date with a real woman. Trust me, Japanese women get enough wimpiness in their own culture.

*If you want to read the other Secret 3 and 4, check the post at 1001Kisses.com